Friday, July 9, 2010

support

Today was one of the days I leaned on my husband more than others. I always look to him for my support, encouragement, strength, and motivation. He never lets me feel bad about myself, or regret the decisions I have made with my life. He keeps me standing tall, having faith in myself, and faith in my dreams.
Today was one of the days I realized how important having support is. How important it is to have someone watch your back, catch you when you fall, wipe away your tears, and refusing to let you give up, when no one else has faith in you. Reaching a goal or achieving a dream is so much easier with support. I find that with my clients, I see a higher percentage achieve their goals when they have support from their loved ones, or friends. There is someone there for them in their journey, rooting them on, believing in them. Sometimes the only support for them is me... The power of positive energy and thinking is amazing... so is the power of negativity.
Jealousy, bitterness, ignorance, anger, and insecurities can pull others (or yourself) down. The smallest look, words, or hint of negativity can crush, derail, and annihilate someone. I'm sure everyone has felt how painful this can be, the pain shoots right to your heart, right through your core. Then comes the doubt, embarrassment, and foolishness for having a goal/dream and sharing it. What was I thinking, who was I fooling!?
You are wrong for feeling this way. You can't let other's get you down, don't let anyone take your confidence and goals/dreams away, even yourself! They are yours, you deserve them. Surround yourself with positives, positive people, positive thoughts, positive energy. Ignore the negatives around you, forget the people who try to bring you down and don't support you in your journey. You have to go with your heart, better yourself, and do things for you.
You get this one beautiful life. Do you want any regrets? I don't! It's your choice to either make your life a positive impact on other's, including your own, or to be the negative energy that pulls you and other's down.
So I just want to thank my Husband for his strength, and support he has given me these past 4 1/2 years. You have helped me onto the path of changing my own life, and helping to change so many other's lives. I also want to thank you for changing my state of mind to a much more positive one, I still have more work to do, but thats one of my goals and I know you will be supporting me on my way to achieving it! ;)

-Tabitha

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